Resumo de Infidelity

Infidelity: The warning signs:

Divorce seems to be the thing of the day today. Everywhere you go, you are bound to find some family member or friend that opts for divorce. And the main reason for this divorce is usually infidelity. Divorce is the last step that is resorted to when the spouse is in too deep a relationship with an outsider, to maintain a married life with you. This is the reason it is better to avoid divorce, by identifying infidelity with the warning signs it gives you.

The spouse that seems to be bored with life, you, the job, kids and basically doesn?t actually like doing anything may be having an extra marital affair. The excitement he or she experiences with the outsider makes all these other activities look boring. This usually leads to a decrease in the intimacy of your relationship wherein sometimes there seems to be a practically no sex in your lives. Even communication between you reaches a low time low when your spouse is unfaithful to you.

Be careful when a sudden interest in dangers and thrills grows in his or her life as it could signify the love of the thrill of having an extra marital that brought about this interest in thrills. The spouse who becomes defensive at the mention of infidelity or extra marital affairs is a warning sign of infidelity.

Sudden changes in working hours and shifts should be checked and verified with the office. This is the most common, and usually the most affirmative warning sign of infidelity. Usually these late hours accompany changes in the dressing style of the spouse. They tend to dress nicer, to look nicer; so be wary of such changes. Even your monthly credit card statements may undergo some changes, that don?t seem to make any sense. You may come across unaccounted expenses, and with this, money becomes a great issue between the two of you. Where you used to get sufficient money for your needs and expenses, you may start feeling a tight pinch somewhere.

Sudden and frequent business trips are a very strong warning sign of infidelity. This is more so, if they were practically non-existent before. Check all incoming calls to your telephone as the spouse may make or receive phone calls here. Keep a watch on the telephone numbers on a pager or beeper as new or suspicious numbers are signs of infidelity. Moreover, the more frequently these numbers are called, the more proof you have of infidelity.

Strange tastes and smells that come from your spouse indicate infidelity. Pay close attention for tastes and smells that don?t seem to be right as this indicates infidelity. And most important, if you have a doubt about infidelity, keep a look out for physical evidence as there is bound to be some physical evidence that is just waiting to be found out by you!

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