Resumo de Forgiveness - enri estanislao

For decades, the thing that is always being ask about is forgiveness. When people have done something really bad to us, we think that they are not worth our trust again. We wanted to curse them to the point that we even want to kill them with our bare hands. We also think that since they betrayed, backstabbed or whatever wrong they''ve done that hurt us, they have to feel aslo what we felt during those times they made our life miserable. And in return, something bad must also happen to them that will double their woe. Why we people sometimes cannot forgive the people who hurt us most? Why we people sometimes cannot forget the bad things that they''ve done to us even if we already fogave them? Why does it seem that mistakes do not totally disappear from our minds? Why does it seem that even if we have forgiven that person already, and u got a fight again, the things they''ve done from the past will be brought out again. Is that what you call forgiveness??? We always think that it''s already the end of the world. We keep on asking ourselves why those people we love and love us hurt us? How come those people who are dear to us betray us??? All people,for sure already experienced betrayal, hatred, love...all kinds of emotions. Emotions we feel that made us decide when to forgive or to forget a person... I myself experienced that already, deep in my heart, deep within me, I wanted to forgive that person who hurt me most. God knows how much i was willing to forgive that person... But everytime i see that person, the anger, hatred and depression comes alive. Even if I wanted to stop thinking about what they did, I felt its killing me. I even went to different churches to pray for novenas just to forgive that person who hurt me much, because I really dont know what stopping me to forgive that person. Even at the middle of the night, i woke up crying because of that person. I can''t even eat, nor in the moods to do my daily actions. As times passed by, i realized that it''s me who was very pretentious of that situation. It''s me who suffered most. It''s me who cannot sleep at night. Even if I was not the one who made the mistakes, still, it''s me who keeps on thinking about the situation. One thing i learned in my life that if someone or somebody closes to you hurt you most... Just lift all your miseries to the Lord, and God will do the rest. Dont think of revenge. God will find a way on how you could deal with your emotions. Keep on praying. Move forward, and think that everything happens for a reason. You may not be able to see the reason behind why it happened, but God knows that what''s best for us. Don''t rush the recovery, let time heal the wound that it caused into your life. We cannot transfrom the past, we cannot modify what happened already...but we can adjust our future by looking at the brighter side of life. Be optimistic always, remember that it''s not your lost it''s their lost. And I know that you''ll think that im not in your feet that is why its easy for me to say this. But as for me, I already experienced the kind of hurt that a person could feel. And for every failure, in each trial, in all the problems i encountered. It''s still Him who do all the special treatment that i needed just to succeed for this unsatisfying feeling to keep to an end. Don''t fail to remember God in everything that is happening into your life...coz in the end, it still Him who will help us. Don''t take revenge as i''ve said, God will do that for us... If i remember it right, those people who hurted me, betrayed me without any reasons at all, even if i gave all the best for them, even if I extended my help for them..still they chose to betray me...where are they now??? I''m not happy of what happened to their lives now, i felt sad about the situatuions they''re into...And even if someone hurt you, don''t curse those people, keep on praying for their safety, cause it will surely elp you to recover fast...I can assure you it works!!! Of course we cannot avoid the fact that sometimes it will enter our mind, but at least it is not like before that it''s very painful... its very depressing.. So where am I now??? Well, i totally feel better...Trials in life will continually coming, maybe has no ends... But always think of other people, who has no home, no families nor food to have.... And you will feel, that you are still rich and you are still lucky. Lucky that I know where to seek comfort.. God is good all the time, even if sometimes I cannot understand why problems are continually coming into my life, I know He is always with me...

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