Resumo de Ensnared - bimbo odukoya

kemi was a promising young woman who had a bright future before she met hope,
how swept her off her feet. tope did not share her riligious beliefs,
but he always spoke to her about his principles and family values.
she remembers him saying that a wife does not need to work as a hunsband
should be suppotive of his wife. she thought herself this is the man of my dreams;
tope was flamboyant, romantic and passionate and
she fell head over heads over heels in love wiht him.
kemi's parents and friends tried to talk her out of it.
but her mind was made up.the way he expplained it,
his beliefs sounded very much like my own? she said.
he said the right things at the right time. however,
not everything he told her was true. when tope proposed to kemi,
she accepted promising to marry him according to his relegious
bliefs and to bring up their children as his religion required.
During the ceremony, Kemi repeated phrases in his language
with no idea of what she was saying.After the wedding she read her marriage
certifdicates and was shocked to find that her name has
ben changed to a traditional one. Her new husband assured her that it was just on a paper ,
but suddenlyKemi's dream of a knight in shining armour was turning into a nightmare.
The more i submited to his traditions, the more he and his family had rights over me,
she explained, 'he controlled everything my money,
my decisions and my social life.
He stayed out all night spending his time in strip bars or with other women.
the physical abuse started while i was expecting out second child!
On the outside Kemi's life looked like a hollywood fantasy-seven homes,
and eighteen-carat tennis bracelet and any car she wanted- but inside,
she was experiencing a living hell.
your partner must have the same beliefs as you,
it is not safe if they are not similar, they must be the same,
otherwise there will be serious problems, as in kemi's case.
Investigate the background of your intended spouse,
his family their traditions and beliefs.
Never disregard the warnings of your parents and friends.
a person who truely loves you do not understand without ensuring that you know the truth.
Only when dealing with God, and not with man, should trust be blind.

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