Resumo de What Turns You On?

If you find yourself attracted to someone else, what is the very first thing that comes to your mind? What is the very feature that you find alluring in this other person? How can you identify very specifically what it is about this person that is magnetizing you.
Being attracted to a third party is an intrusion on your intimacy with your partner, but why not use this element as a guide or tool to pinpoint the changes that need to be made within yourself, your partner and your relationship.
Physical Attraction
What makes a dark skin, brown skin, milky white skin, blonde, brunette or redhead more or less desirable to you? Does it suggest the comfort of being more at home with the familiar or perhaps the opposite - the excitement of the unknown? How can skin or hair color be more significant? What about her hazel or violet eyes or those high cheekbones?
Does being with someone of a different skin, hair or eye color, serve as a declaration of freedom and breaking away from traditions or breaking loose from expectation, perhaps? The answer lies in being able to identify specifically the quality you are attracted to and find a way to reactivate it in your partner - the very element that got you attracted to your partner when you first met, cherish the way she looks, the epitome of your desirability.
Sexual Attraction
What does sex actually stands for? It can stand for anything - fun, desire, pleasure, excitement, physical relief, self-esteem, intimacy, freedom, a sense of masculinity and a host of other things. Sex in our culture is very often used to presumably, get you anything you want.
If you do start longing to have sex with someone else, look deeply within yourself to see what you really want. Does that hot babe with that sexy body really turn you on? No, it is not her body, it is you. You can transform your desire into a powerful force that enhances intimacy instead of destroying it. Your partner can be as hot as any babe of your dream. You can get that same excitement with your partner.
Touch your mate with loving enthusiasm and admiration for the special person they are. Touch them with your emotions. Yes, routine sex can be boring and sometimes, destructive. When involved in a loving exchange, there is no such thing as perversion. Each variant of sex act can be a beautiful expression of shared feelings - giving, taking, feeding, nursing, playing, expressing masculinity strength and tenderness. What you do sexually is another expression of "how many ways can I tell you I love you?"
Emotional Attraction
Is the person to whom you are attracted to warm, romantic, caring and supportive, playful, lively, vivacious or maybe, a dreamer? If any of these or other emotional facets of your personality have not been developed or are not fulfilled in some way by your partner, obtaining them can become a driving force in your life.
When someone comes along who appears to have the necessary attributes to fill that void, you become emotionally attracted to them. This can extend into physical attraction that becomes too strong to resist.
What to do with a partner who does not share emotions? You cannot be intimate with someone who does not share your feelings or, even worse, does not seem to have feelings. Start by telling your partner that you love them, and each time they share a feeling there is more of them to love.
Express your loving appreciation with tenderness and caring. Add passion, and keep the enthusiasm in your ardor fresh. Be extravagant in your praise and your expression of love.
Your emotional connection allows you to share each other''''s feelings. The more you are able to share and experience each other''''s feelings, the trust for each other expands. Sharing your emotions will put you in a position to have a much fuller life.
Spiritual Attraction
Do you feel uncomfortable in your relationship with someone of a different religion and background and fall for a person of your own faithwho ma

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