Parenting and Children
(My friend Jessica)
Mothers have always some good feel for their children''''s focus in life.
At some point, we are witness to fast phasing situations around us. Influence at at home could get our kids support and help them build a solid foundation of moral values and fine upbringing with a thought that these kids are also vulnerable to influences outside their homes.
There are times when kids in grade school would adopt some disrespectful behavior that mostly he got from his new friends or in school.While a young girl would dress up like her Barbie doll''''s clothes,assuming a role of a princess or a career girl...or would pretend to be a girlfriend of her tv idol...All these influences be then good or bad,could still be corrected if a child was raised in a warm,loving and attentive parents./parent or we call a happy home,where a child could feel understanding and not being taken for granted...this child would come back and would say"he just wanted to see "what''''s in it" or would just wanted to find out "what''''s in there"
We can help kids to grow and be able to develope their talent by letting them express what they really wanted to do in life with passion.If you see him building a bird''''s cage ora dog''''s house then buy him a hummer,saw, and tools he needs then linger with him,bond together and do the work together in a spirit of fun and excitement,having to come up with something to be use...Same with girls,maybe she would love to sing,buy her cd''''s, microphone,cd player or maybe she wanted to write,buy her tools like books and ask her to read and summarize what she read. This helps to develope her potentials.Maybe she wants to cook,buy her recepes,work on them with her...if she''''s a toddler,buy her non toxic toys...educational toys like building blocks sharpens her mind to think and stirrs her vision.
Let us allow them to grow with our guidance but let''''s not hinder the growth with in to develope.Let us not push them to like and do the things we did when we were the same age as them.Like if you were a champion ballet dancer in your time while your child wanted to push her interests in swimming..so instead of buying her a ballet shoes, get her a swim suit! This is healthy parenting without interfering.
To wrap up...let''''s be the first persons that our children would run to in times of emergency and good news!
Let us be the first persons they would trust in moment of major decisions in life.
Let us be the first persons they would think about when they are experiencing insults,harrasments,facing a challenge for the day and then they will become spiritually and emotionally strong and confident individuals.
Last but not the least:Let us surround our family with humor...lots of humor to ease out whatever pressures we all may encounter for the day and let God be with us every moment of the day!:)
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